{"id":8933,"date":"2013-11-13T17:00:11","date_gmt":"2013-11-13T22:00:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blueheronhealthnews.com\/site\/?p=8933"},"modified":"2013-11-13T14:58:25","modified_gmt":"2013-11-13T19:58:25","slug":"why-ed-was-the-best-thing-that-happened-to-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blueheronhealthnews.com\/site\/2013\/11\/13\/why-ed-was-the-best-thing-that-happened-to-me\/","title":{"rendered":"Why ED Was the Best Thing That Happened to Me"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/blueheronhealthnews.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/Michael-Russer.jpg\" alt=\"Michael Russer\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-8934\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blueheronhealthnews.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/Michael-Russer.jpg 300w, https:\/\/blueheronhealthnews.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/Michael-Russer-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/blueheronhealthnews.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/Michael-Russer-60x60.jpg 60w, https:\/\/blueheronhealthnews.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/Michael-Russer-70x70.jpg 70w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/>Most men who develop ED experience overwhelming shame about it. After all, it\u2019s the end of them most essential thing we consider to to a man.<\/p>\n<p>And Michael Russer was no exception. Developing \u201cincurable\u201d ED (not even the blue pill worked) after prostate surgery, Russer was faced with divorce and \u201cfree-man\u201d without the right tools.<\/p>\n<p>So what do you do when starting a new relationship in your sixties when you know you\u2019re going to be somewhat crippled in the most essential places?<\/p>\n<p>Learn exactly what Russer did in today\u2019s article\u2026<\/p>\n<p>The first thing he did was to talk about his erectile dysfunction with his new partner. Of course the first conversation was a little uncomfortable but it got easier and easier.<\/p>\n<p>Russer sais the number 1 mistake most men do is to avoid the subject or try to hide it. \u201cThere\u2019s so much shame and anger associated with it, and so many men just shut down.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>What followed was quite a surprise. Russer shares how by relaxing and focusing on her, he\u2019s now experiencing dept and emotional and physical intimacy on a level he would never have thought possible.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIntercourse is great for making babies, it\u2019s not always conducive to growing deep intimacy between a man and woman.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>He further states that the word \u201cperformance\u201d needs to be removed and replaced by \u201cbeing present\u201d in the bedroom.<\/p>\n<p>I believe many women will agree greatly with Russer. Men tend to focus too much on goals and performance, which leaves women (and men) without what they really need \u2013 closeness and intimacy.<\/p>\n<p>And there are so many other things both men and women can do to satisfy each other sexually, even the old tool isn\u2019t working with a 500 horsepower anymore.<\/p>\n<p>You can learn more about Russer&#8217;s work <a href=\"http:\/\/MichaelRusserLive.com\">here&#8230;<\/a><\/p>\n<p>There is however always something you can do about erectile dysfunction. Even if it\u2019s caused by surgery like Russer\u2019s case and even if the blue pill doesn\u2019t work, our simple Erectile Dysfunction Exercises have extremely high success rate.<\/p>\n<p><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/blueheronhealthnews.com\/site\/erectile-mastery\/\">To learn exactly how these erectile dysfunction exercises work, click here\u2026<br \/>\n<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Most men who develop ED experience overwhelming shame about it. After all, it\u2019s the end of them most essential thing we consider to to a man. And Michael Russer was no exception. Developing \u201cincurable\u201d ED (not even the blue pill worked) after prostate surgery, Russer was faced with divorce and \u201cfree-man\u201d without the right tools. 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